Ask HN: What's your #1 single biggest career challenge right now?

14 points by JoshDoody 8 years ago | 5 comments

How can I help you? I'm researching writing topics to augment my work on how to excel in job interviews and salary negotiations. With your input, I can write more about topics that are helpful to you and the community.

Please be as detailed and specific as possible. Please go beyond saying, "salary" or "need a promotion". The more specific and detailed you are, the more likely I'll be able to write about your topic :) e.g. "I've been interviewing for a new job but haven't been getting to the second interview, and I would like to know how to..."

There's also a short survey up on Google Forms if you would like to share more - link in my comment below.

JoshDoody 8 years ago |

Here's a link to the still-short, but slightly-more-detailed survey on Google Forms if you can spare 2 minutes: http://bit.ly/Survey-FSN-ASKHN

And I'll be around here in the comments for the next few hours as well.

tnorthcutt 8 years ago |

How do you know how hard is "too hard" to negotiate? Should you be concerned about killing the deal or souring the relationship (even if you get the job) by pushing too hard?

JoshDoody 8 years ago | |

There are two layers to this answer:

1) Before you even get a job offer, it's important to decide what your "walk away" number is (I called this Minimum Acceptable Salary). Having this number decided—and I recommend literally writing it down—before you get the offer helps you answer this question directly: You should negotiate hard enough to at least see if they will meet your walk away number. If they can't, you can walk away knowing it wasn't a good fit for you.

2) Once you're beyond your "walk away" number—meaning you'll definitely take the job and you're just trying to get the best compensation package possible before you start—things are pretty straightforward. You basically start by counter offering on base salary to see what they can do. Then look for opportunities to negotiate other things that are important to you (paid vacation time, signing bonus, RSUs, etc.).

When you negotiate salary, it should look more like a conversation about the small details than a pound-your-fist-on-the-table-and-shout-at-each-other-until-someone-relents type of negotiation.

"I'd be more comfortable at $X." "We can't do $X, but can we do $Y." "Ok, thanks for working with me. I was hoping to get $X, and I understand you can't meet me all the way. Can you do $Y plus an extra week of paid vacation?" ...

It's a collaborative back-and-forth and both of you should feel like you're just discussing details, not fighting over salaries.

tnorthcutt 8 years ago | | |

feel like you're just discussing details, not fighting over salaries

Ahhh, perfect, that clicks for me. Thanks!

haungo 8 years ago |

What's a good response to the question "what was your previous salary"? I always feel like I'm leaving money on the table.