I'm in such disbelief. I mean, I totally believe this happens, I'm just shocked that adults.... with jobs... that can afford to go to conferences... act like this. Worse, what does one really expect when DMing someone with "I yanked it to your conference video"? Is there ANY expectation that someone's going to say, "awesome anonymous person on the internet, perhaps we should start a relationship!" I've been lucky enough for the past 10 years to work in places where women are NEVER talked about by a bunch of bros.