I finally bought because I was sinking large chunks of money into my old Camry every few months for the last few years, and toward the end, each trip to the mechanic, I would ask myself: does a Tesla even have the part or system I am paying money to fix? Usually the answer was no.
The Camry was superbly maintained. Carmax only gave me $300 for it... go figure. I was happy to be done with it. All those repairs were wasted money.
Yes I would say bite the bullet, make the purchase, and stop the bleeding.
All the savings listed on the website (slightly deceptively it seems but maybe it’s common in sales) do not even include the money you will be saving on maintenance.
On the other hand, the insurance bill is high depending on the price of your config.
Just test drive it.
Road trips are not a problem and are quite fun actually. It’s even sleepable for people up to about 6’.
Biggest pro is the Autopilot cruise control with auto distance keeping. Removes 95% of the stress from your commute especially if there is any stop and go driving. Not sure if you need FSD to get this these days but maybe. Anyway that will pay for itself in prevented car accidents that you would have been involved in otherwise.
If you can possibly swing the dual motor or performance... do it. Get the highest one you can. I could have gone one more step up and regret not doing so.
You might want to try the reddit teslamotors subreddit for more answers.