The same source shows that Germany and England started their demographic transition end of the 19th century despite being more urbanised.
The effect should be bigger in northern countries than in the southern countries but Norway, Denmark and Sweden started also their transition at the end of the century, and today they have a greater fertility rate than Spain, Italy or Greece
It's hard having kids but cultures like Japanese and Korean make it so hard on women - expected to care for both sets of aging parents and grandparents as well, bullied by the husband's mother and lumbered with childcare and cooking, I don't think we need to trouble this guy for his 'theories' to see why as soon as they have a choice, they nope out.
Often the cause of a phenomenon has multiple causes but we humans and especially our media like to imagine every single event has a single cause, it’s a strong bias.
In other words, it’s entirely possible that culture, education and LED lights all have significant effects on birth rates
But in things as complex as this, multiple factors could be at play, including what this guy is theorizing.
Also, I don't really see the supposed collapse of birth rates after 2015, at least it doesn't seem half as drastic as those in the 70s (which can be explained by people having more money) or the ones caused by war.