Let’s just wait and see for this one. I do not think it’s OpenSMTPD specific. The reply there is not from Meta, its from OpenSMTPD saying the bug is on Metas side. Which i think is true. I think they might have a major issue which has nothing to do with OpenSMTPD, Metas mail servers are just failing all round.
[1] - https://unix.stackexchange.com/questions/392729/opensmtpd-pi...
[2] - https://wiki.archlinux.org/title/OpenSMTPD#Subsystem_tracing
* https://marc.info/?l=opensmtpd-misc&m=141543622103232&w=2
Coincidentally, I was just talking about the mess that SMTP got into with all this.
[1] - https://wiki.archlinux.org/title/OpenSMTPD#Subsystem_tracing
That is exactly why I would enable debugging or tracing and see who is sending what and whom is responding or waiting on something expected with timestamps so that nobody is guessing. The tracing should occur on both the sending and receiving side.