This feels important to read, and I appreciate the author's candor.

You have to remember that not every character (for lack of a better word) in every story you read, needs to be morally justified in their thoughts, emotions, and actions. This author is angry, humiliated, scared for their life. It's not compelling to discuss their thoughts without empathy. If you don't think you would feel or say the same, were you in their shoes, imagine "what would need to be true for me to feel, think, act that way?"

This way of empathizing, where you assume the role of another without assuming superiority, may help you better understand what the author is trying to communicate. What must it be like, what might they be going through, how vulnerable must it feel?

The author is dealing with a minute-by-minute reminder of how easy their life could end. Most readers will have never experienced this. On top of this, they are dependent on a company and system, which is only tangentially designed to keep their body alive. During a time when the author dare to have a vacation away from home, an experience something many of us don't realize we take for granted (maybe not financially, but the fact we are able-bodied enough), they are faced with losing their life like never before.

I think the author needs no justification for their apparent rage. It's refreshing to hear a voice we don't often hear. We are often raised being told these feelings of grief and rage are bad, unmoral, crass. That we should judge others who express them.

Here is one person's story you happened to come across. If you have trouble empathizing, remember, at best, we are all just temporarily able-bodied. You may do well to reckon with these experiences now, before your existential challenges are picked apart as inconvenient or uncomfortable for others.

My wife is a t1d and has the same pump. It sucks their support staff has no idea how the thing works or what its failure modes are. My wife once had her x2 tell her it gave here a 40 unit bolis out of the blue . This would have killed her. While in the er support from x2 said something like "there is no way for it to do this .. you must be wrong.. are you reading the display correctly .." All in all the x2 plus dexcom was supposed to be a closed loop cgm plus pump. It rarely cuts insulin delivery on low blood sugar, or it does it way too late to matter .

Reading this, my takeaway was less about the pump and more about how every part of the medical system is disconnected from every other part.

There were some mistakes made but they were all pretty reasonable decisions. But the situation that caused this in order:

1. The support line for the pump won't suggest sending it to where you are because you say you have a backup plan.

2. The support line also isn't a doctor; they can't evaluate how good or bad your backup plan is, just how to deal with the pump.

3. You message your GP. But the message system doesn't connect you live to the on-call practitioner; that's a phone number that is not easily findable.

4. Your GP fills a prescription for the backup pen and sends it to the closest pharmacy.

5. The pharmacy takes the prescription, but they don't actually know if they can fill it until later. They also can't find a pharmacy farther than 25 miles away from the current location.

Each issue is reasonable by itself, but the end result is that the patient had to call 2 different people, go to a pharmacy, and still wasn't able to get what they needed. The gaps that could have (theoretically) been patched are:

1. Support could have known the possible workarounds. I realize that legally it could have been dicey, but the "fix" suggested on Reddit seems like something that could have been mentioned as an interim solution.

2. Your GP could make it more obvious which communication method reaches the office on a weekend.

3. The GP should be able to talk to the pharmacy to ensure they have the medication in the prescription.

4. The pharmacy should be able to search farther than 25 miles to find a medication for a prescription they've been sent.

It should be much more difficult for a patient to hit every edge case like this, especially when just being able to talk to each other would have stopped some of these.

I’m diabetic and found this strange for a few reasons. There’s a postscript in the blog post wishing death from diabetes on any diabetic who tries to point any of it out—so I’ll leave it at that.

Bizarre intro to the blog. Been a pump user for 20 years, forever grateful to the technology that allowed me to live a pretty unrestricted life. Sympathy of course to anyone who's had it harder than I have ofc

i have multiple family members with t1d and having experienced their stories i expected this blog to be filled with anti-patient practises, planned obsolesence and the like. however, i was relieved to read that's not the case.

It is insane how weird and complicated it is to get unscheduled medical care.

I don't think the attitude in the first several paragraphs, wishing harm to the pump engineers etc, can lead to a good discussion.

One other thing to try if you find yourself in a "need meds away from home" situation: Ask a local pharmacist.

Find a local pharmacy -- preferably not a mega-corporate chain pharmacy like Walgreens or CVS -- and ask to speak to the pharmacist. Tell them your situation. They can often call your regular pharmacy and get your prescription transferred to themselves temporarily over the phone without even getting your doctor involved (if they have your meds in stock). This works better talking to the pharmacist in person than on the phone, especially if you need a prescription that invokes DEA scrutiny like pain meds.

I recommend avoiding the chain pharmacies not because their pharmacists are bad, but because they are often hamstrung by corporate policies that won't let them do things like this without a lot of red tape.

Pharmacists are medical professionals. Use them.

This is a terrifying and illuminating read.

Uh, okay, she didn’t advocate for herself on the phone and darkly alludes to not knowing what could have happened if she’d told them she wasn’t at her home and needed her replacement pump sent to another address. I think they would’ve sent it to the hotel without a problem. Her takeaway is that she should have been “meaner” on the phone, but I think just honestly expressing her situation would cover it.

And “I don't think it's possible to live without resentment for the technology keeping you alive.” This plus all the stuff at the top of the post about how she hates manufacturers of insulin pumps and she’s trapped. I have lived in a very developed country, and I currently live in a least-developed country. I am pretty grateful for the technology that keeps life in the developed world safe and comfortable.

I’m also a type 1 and I force myself to use pens every few months so I don’t get jumped like this. We need implantable insulin pumps again so bad. Also fuck tandem, I’ve moved to Omnipod (which has its own issues, but better than tandem).

My aunt had her American Express die on vacation and they had a new one in her hands, in her hotel room, at 8 am the next morning.

Priorities. Sigh.

> I know that going to an emergency room would have cost me an insane amount of money

I just don’t understand how Americans put up with this shit. I live in a country that only has private healthcare, and the idea that you can be insured and also that an emergency room visit can be expensive rather than specifically what the insurance is meant to cover is nuts.

I stopped reading where he just googled what can be wrong with his life support medical aid instead of calling some kind of support line.

Keep in shape and don't overeat!

In my family, where's hard to convince to stop eating too much and moving too little we had 3 cases of diabetes in the last decade.

My girlfriend, which weights 170 pounds, and I just can't get to have a healthier life style has been diagnosed with pre-diabetes and high insuline resistance at 33 only!

I am increasingly looking at severely overweight people the same way I look at drug or alcohol addicts. It is an addiction, and it's super unhealthy yet some how socially accepted?

Not sure why this is got on the front page here. This is a just rant / vent more than anything else.

> I've been pretty honest over the years that I value having an insulin pump, but that I also hate the manufacturers and designers of every pump I've ever used. If you introduced me to any person who has ever designed an insulin pump I've used, I would probably punch them in the face and cuss them out in front of their children.

Hahaha hilarious joke.

> I've lived with diabetes for 27 years and I've been on pumps for 25. I have spent a quarter of a century relying on machines to keep me alive. It has never failed on me before.

Really feel this hatred is uncalled for if this is the first true failure the author has had.

> It's incredible that I've been able to do this, and it's incredible that it never occurred to me to plan for a situation where the entire pump would fucking break.

Lesson learned!

> If I don't write what I've learned here, one of those hideously irritating diabetics who goes on Reddit and argues about everything from the perspective of Perfect, Unerring Care will send me an email criticizing me. Fuck you, if that's you. If you were even thinking of emailing me to criticize me about what I did, I hope you die. Of diabetes.

Gonna send an email after posting this!

> It's very difficult to have a normal attitude about a tech company that keeps you alive, but it's even harder to be normal about it when the tech fucking breaks. Even if we lived in a utopia, with universal healthcare, universal pharmacy medication searches, and helpful customer service reps who send backup pumps directly to my location on the backs of swift eagles... even then, I don't think it's possible to live without resentment for the technology keeping you alive.

I do not understand this attitude at all. So you go like 25 years without your pump failing and this one failure gives you a complete 180 stance on medical tech? Lucky for you there is always the option to go back on pens! 1000 times less points of failure.

I look forward to the future posts on the Dexcom G7. Now that thing is a piece of shit. Especially frustrating when I never had problems with the G6. Dexcom managed to make their product worse and is forcing us all to "upgrade". There's already a class action lawsuit against it. Can't wait to receive my $20 from it in 5 years!

The pump manufacturer is at fault a few different ways. They have a responsibility to make pumps that don’t break, and they should probably issue a recall. They shouldn’t rely on the availability of a product they don’t supply as a backup unless they can guarantee somehow that the patient always has access. Their staff should ask where you want the thing shipped to and include options like receiving the replacement at a Fedex or UPS location. Their staff should be trained to ask “are you traveling or otherwise away from your home address?” And finally they should train staff on follow-up questions for a patient’s plan and confirm the patient has enough insulin on-hand to cover executing the plan.

> Each issue is reasonable by itself...

The problem of many hands - when responsibilities in a group that collectively does harm are divided between many people, who can be held accountable when each person individually acted reasonably?

I think organizations are, more and more, siloing roles in this way intentionally (or at least emergently), such that blame can only ever be collective if they do harm. Since it's so much harder to redress collective blame, this can be effective in avoiding consequence entirely.

The author isn't talking about you.

The author is talking about the people who will inevitably email with explanations about how she's doing something wrong or things are not as bad as they seem or any number of other options.

I have asthma in a particular form, and when people hear that I get triggered by extensive exercise and hill climbs and that I have to take things slow (it's gotten progressively worse in the last two years after COVID) I will inevitably be told "well you need to exercise more."

Exercise can't fix scar tissue, bob.

Because that's what I'm fighting. I don't have a full pair of adult lungs. I have two lungs that got the shit beaten out of them when I was 3. Could I use some more exercise? Certainly. Will it magically fix my asthma? no.

I wish you life from diabetes to cancel out her curse

> If you were even thinking of emailing me to criticize me about what I did, I hope you die. Of diabetes.

Found your comment strange, did you read this incorrectly?

I empathize with the author. I have severe panic attacks and getting advice from someone who has maybe had a little anxiety once is infuriating.

The postscript in the blog post specifically wishes death on any diabetic who tries to point this out "from the perspective of Perfect, Unerring Care" via email: that's the "some percent crazy assholes" from https://www.smbc-comics.com/comic/2013-04-07. I think it's fair to post more appropriate commentary in a public forum, where it's aimed at audiences who don't already know everything the author does.

Fortunately, having a discussion does not appear to be the goal of this blog post. The author is relating a story including their feelings on the matter. It’s not really about us, unless you’re working for a pump company or could possibly address the structural issues that have led to this situation.

Honestly, I found it illuminating. I don’t depend on a machine to keep me alive directly, but it made me think about how much I would resent dangling at the end of a line held by a company that would cut me off if investors thought it would make them slightly richer. One that cuts every corner they can, and doesn’t actually care about you. I imagine that resentment over years, a quarter century of things getting worse on the “caring whether you live or die” front, might lead to the feelings the author expressed.

It’s pretty clear that discussion is not desired, unless you have the cure for type 1 diabetes in hand before you send the first reply.

Retired manager, been in my share of tense meetings.

I appreciate it when someone recognizes that they're struggling with conflict and emotion, and lets me know that they know this. It's better to acknowledge the emotion and put it on the table as its own valid topic of discussion, than to tiptoe around it or try the "I'm sensing that you're dealing with some internal conflict" approach that risks embarrassing them or worsening it.

The choice is whether to acknowledge the emotion, not whether to have it.

It honestly might be helpful if we framed more conversations that way, when talking about the creeping dependencies on tech firms that fill our lives.

Those of us without a medical dependency are lucky that catching one of the many tech failures modes won't actually kill us - but you'll still want to throttle more than a few folks if you ever have to recover from your Google/Apple ID getting banned, or PayPal running off with all your money, etc.

Not every blog is written to be discussed on Hacker News. That being said I enjoyed it and found it illuminating. It could be a regional difference, but I’m from the South East US and didn’t mind the direct communication style at all. I much prefer someone to speak their feelings rather than being nice for the sake of nicities.

First, let's acknowledge that when the actions of some people lead to endangering a human life, it's natural to be angry about it.

Personally, when anger is justified, I feel more comfortable with people who clearly and openly express it.

I find them more reliable, more honest, and usually better people to be around.

By my standards, I'd even consider the style very mild, considering a life is on the line.

I would also consider it normal to be on the receiving end of such language if my own work resulted in such a situation. That would cause me to pause and reflect.

The intensity of feedback is information. If everything is bland, it's harder to know how important something is or not. Logic has a limit because you don't have all the parameters from the other side.

It works the other way around. The overuse of superlatives and day-to-day outrage is equally unproductive.

This is not the case here, IMO.