It was only when I moved out of home and decided to try and recreate it I realized how unique it was!
Makes me wonder how many other similar stories exist in other peoples homes.
Did Rose's version not have the calamansi?
The garnishing, was that cilantro? What choice of rice brings you back to the childhood?
Thanks! This was quite eye-opening. The tiniest details are essential!!
There are also other ethnic takes, like Kuah bamia/bamia kambing (close to the original,lamb; north Indian version would add yoghurt, South would be (fermented?)coconut milk?), nonya okra stew (Straits Chinese,adding tamarind like you mentioned, different spices)
Spoiler: it was a stewaway.
For a pop-culture reference, probably known mostly in the UK, see "Trigger's Broom".
The character Trigger is a street sweeper and is given an award by the council for using the same broom for 20 years. Later he reveals the trick to good broom maintenance is to replace parts when they start to go, and says it has had 17 new heads and 14 new handles.
I'm pretty sure I typically see them fully green when in Singapore, but not 100% sure.
I tend to alternate between using calamansi (if I manage to find them), or instead the bottled calamansi extract (which still works pretty well!).
> Did Rose's version not have the calamansi?
By Rose's version are you referring to https://www.jewishfoodsociety.org/stories/the-flavors-of-ira... ?
If I recall, it doesn't include calamansi but instead lemon juice, I'm not sure if this is an ingredient substitution or not. I've tried making it with lemon juice, but it just misses the exact flavour profile I remember from my childhood.
> The garnishing, was that cilantro?
Yep, that is cilantro (I just happened to have some on hand).
> like bamia kambing (close to the original,lamb; Indian version would add yoghurt), nonya okra stew (Chinese,adding tamarind like you mentioned, different spices)
Thanks for mentioning these! I'm not too familiar with them, but would be keen to try them.
Here's one
https://www.peranakanmuseum.nhb.gov.sg/learn/digital-resourc...
I find it fascinating that the diff is almost only the "source of tartness"!
Thanks!
PS, your story could even make it into that site..