Don't worry about your family.

They never appreciate things. You can take the kids to paris on vacation, and the kids will like the hotel pool better than the louvre.

I think do self hosting for yourself.

then get together (or at least communicate) with others that do the same - like minded people who share your interests.

and if your family accidentally likes something you do, well then you're ahead.

maybe you'll get lucky... "When I was a boy of 14, my father was so ignorant I could hardly stand to have the old man around. But when I got to be 21, I was astonished at how much the old man had learned in seven years." - Mark Twain