Be the best?

10 points by bluedevmonkey 12 years ago | 9 comments

What do you think about being "the best one" in your field? I noticed this: I don't start things because I know there is someone else who comes up with a better approach (oh, does the idea exists? search on github, find a repo, stop investigating). - think what you want about this perfectionist all-or-nothing, but please comment some cases where you did exactly the same so I can feel a bit better ;)

link: lifestoogood.net/why-you-dont-have-to-be-the-best/

thesash 12 years ago |

People don't generally accomplish something immensely creative or interesting by setting out to do so. Instead, they stumble upon that great idea after some amount of time spent pursuing their own curiosity. The process looks something like:

1. Do things that interest you

2. Follow the threads of those interesting things towards a deeper understanding of your domain

3. If you're so inclined, specialize further and repeat

4. With some combination of luck, perseverance, and time, you may become the "best" at something for a brief time, but either way you'll have learned a lot and pursued your own curiosity.

bluedevmonkey 12 years ago | |

so it's a process built upon a calling and without any comparisons to other? the last part is read into it, but you get the point; I think these comparisons affect the motivation - even if you don't do it for that. - i.e. this blogger stopped with ballet after she saw better ballet dancers in her course. (unclutterer.com/2009/08/03/you-dont-have-to-be-the-best/)

meerita 12 years ago |

I wont be the best, I just want to get better. The best is something particular of that moment, you can't be the best because a minute after reaching it a new thing comes out or another problem will be face the earth and other people may figure it out better than you.

To me, it's more importante to focus on be better than you're now. You can measure this easily by seeing real world examples of what you want to achieve, then, force you into a method to improve your skills until you feel you're mastering. That could be more rewarding than feeling to be "the best".

ibstudios 12 years ago |

Why do some monkeys like to climb to the tallest branch to make the most noise?

At best, you can only be the best for a short moment. What will you do with yourself after that moment?

I agree with your post, it is not that important. It is just the need to be the highest monkey in the tree.

mh_ 12 years ago | |

I must confess to finding this answer pretty insulting (but i guess in truth, you are calling everyone monkeys, and just distinguishing between those that climb to the top and those that don't)

I guess the counter-thought would be that of exploration & discovery, where we need trailblazers to set the path that others will follow later..

zombio 12 years ago | | |

>I must confess to finding this answer pretty insulting

Oh come on... anyone who finds a simple human/monkey analogy insulting is way too sensitive.

ibstudios 12 years ago | | |

Hi. I mean no offense. I should have explained my thoughts better. I am not calling everyone a monkey, I am saying the behavior is a primate behavior that we share.

Discovery/learning is a completely different desire than the need to compete.

bluedevmonkey 12 years ago | | |

it doesn't seem insulting for me, perhaps my username led him to call us monkeys (what humans are, kind of ;).

bluedevmonkey 12 years ago | |

I didn't think of that long-term view you described. reminded me of some one-hit-wonder artists - thanks for that, but what's the way for a long-term success? the best one retains in the highest branches i guess.