this is a stupid comparison, you're not comparing ios vs android, but rather apps that were likely designed to be similar for consistent ux. Obviously ebay is going to make their ios app in much the same way, reusing assets even, as their android app, ditto the others. for a fair comparison, bring up the apple apps and compare to the google apps, like Mail vs Gmail, and unsurprisingly those look nothing alike.
There's been a lot of talk on how the new iOS7 designs now look like Android. Side-by-side pictures don't lie - iOS7 is different than Android. Just look at the Ted app for godsake!
Only if you have never used iOS7. When you use it is distinctive and nothing at all like Android. It is exactly as has been promoted: a new OS that you still know how to use.