17:[[31204683,{"by":"kite_and_code","descendants":136,"id":31204683,"kids":[31204958,31207044,31204828,31213500,31205681,31205230,31205238,31209830,31205274,31206232,31204833,31204711,31205189,31205624,31204707,31205295,31205085,31205761,31205161,31205535,31204696,31205239,31209586,31205048,31205152,31205410,31209512,31205931,31205396,31205065,31205259,31204692,31205176,31209678,31212620,31204690],"score":15,"text":"My wish is to learn about your wishes.\nNo meta conversation about the scenario, no judgement of others wishes.\nJust self-revelation about preferences and maybe your past life experiences that led to those preferences.

I posted my wishes in the comments as well.

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[Guidelines]

I kindly ask you to respect the following guidelines if you want to participate in the conversation:

- Top-level answers/comments should always include the personal preferences and self-revelation of the commenter.

- If you have a strong desire for meta comments/questions that are not about stating your preferences, please add them to the [META] comment

- When reading don't judge others for their preferences. If you don't understand why they choose a certain thing, you are invited to ask them while keeping an open mind. Then you might be able to listen to their reasons and hear about their past life experiences that guided them towards their current preferences.

- Enjoy the conversation.","time":1651238226,"title":"Ask HN: A genie appears. What do you wish for?","type":"story"}],[30668506,{"by":"DevToRecruiter","descendants":243,"id":30668506,"kids":[30668581,30668529,30668769,30668620,30668608,30668830,30668990,30669465,30677855,30668655,30674568,30668630,30668627,30668875,30668727,30668764,30669001,30668538,30668765,30669019,30668706,30668718,30669662,30671884,30668813,30668564,30668742,30668636,30668721,30669090,30668872,30668709,30668970,30670324,30675880,30668543,30669078,30669034,30668547,30669764,30668968,30669807,30668785,30668933,30668685,30668748,30668802,30668584,30668720,30668762,30670723,30668788,30668678,30669366,30668823,30668661,30668868,30668871,30668676,30669005,30668959,30668779,30668664,30669009,30668658,30669179,30668527,30670824,30678284,30668805,30668917,30669224,30668861,30679720,30673177,30668847,30670588,30668833,30668906,30668931,30669002,30668834,30673080,30669203,30668812,30668626,30668881,30668971,30668800,30673542,30668656,30682226,30668730,30668624,30668908,30668937,30668818,30669082,30668936,30668746,30668951,30668733,30668905,30668594,30668893,30668531,30668877,30668707,30670438,30671934,30668819,30681439,30668898,30668811,30668796,30674713,30668635,30668956,30668900,30674785,30668548,30668651,30668621,30668570,30668949],"score":314,"text":"I don't know if this is the right place for this but here are my stats. I'm a 32yo male, divorced with 2 kids whom I have little access to at the moment. My childhood friendships have withered, my divorce left me untrusting of women (at least for now). I work alone and don't have many opportunities to meet new people organically.

The thing is I don't even like hanging out with people most of the time but I get into this space where it feels like a biological necessity.

Does anyone have any tips on how to give myself attention? Or, in other words, how can I learn to be alone without feeling lonely? I feel like I need this lifeskill in order to proceed in my life.

I have a pattern of loneliness pushing me into making very foolish decisions.","time":1647231888,"title":"Ask HN: I'm So Lonely","type":"story"}],[9074772,{"by":"skorecky","descendants":42,"id":9074772,"kids":[9076134,9079158,9077206,9079675,9076530,9077186,9079623,9078212,9079995,9078520,9076805],"score":105,"time":1424362276,"title":"Basic Personality Changes Linked to Unemployment","type":"story","url":"http://www.apa.org/news/press/releases/2015/02/personality-unemployment.aspx"}]]

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