15:[[30036937,{"by":"revorad","descendants":10,"id":30036937,"kids":[30037530,30116614,30041234,30041564,30114095,30117433,30139786,30100468],"score":87,"time":1642862026,"title":"The Problem with NFTs","type":"story","url":"https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YQ_xWvX1n9g"}],[27224691,{"by":"upwardbound","descendants":137,"id":27224691,"kids":[27225115,27228983,27226884,27225447,27226541,27225539,27228240,27224914,27225308,27226964,27225046,27225354,27225485,27229055,27224971,27225013,27235107,27231442,27224967,27225551,27231229,27226934,27225476,27224832,27229680,27225053,27229213,27231375,27231230,27224744],"score":129,"time":1621533605,"title":"New Snap Spectacles Feature Augmented Reality Display","type":"story","url":"https://www.spectacles.com/new-spectacles"}],[26523816,{"by":"break_the_bank","descendants":164,"id":26523816,"kids":[26525466,26524032,26525173,26523894,26524474,26526034,26525640,26524312,26524064,26524304,26524505,26525642,26524170,26524253,26525580,26524805,26524003,26523951,26526004,26524360,26525877,26525447,26597545,26530583,26524013,26527903,26524276,26526386,26525442,26524157,26524180,26524150,26524353,26536402,26527742,26526055,26529083,26524055,26525164,26525703,26526143,26530972,26525893,26524231,26527505,26525381,26554791,26526235,26527956,26600760,26597901,26524378,26524205,26524798,26524845,26527931,26525884,26525798,26525574,26525578,26530735,26530271,26525696,26528185,26523955,26524397,26547371,26525556,26526192,26525749,26525672,26525901,26524635,26599467,26529303,26556568,26524712,26527269,26526615,26526251,26525581,26549235,26524149,26523965,26533446,26525303],"score":212,"text":"As an engineer I run cycles of listening, paraphrasing and then solutionizing almost every day. This doesn't translate well in friendships & relationships where the other person just wants someone to listen. At the same time I rate lowly on empathy scoring tests on the internet. Other technical folks here who might have gone through this,

1. How did you develop your listening skill?

2. How to be more empathetic?

Update: Some more questions

1. What common failure modes do you hit in your relationships as a low empathy person?

2. How do you avoid them?","time":1616254320,"title":"Ask HN: How to build empathy?","type":"story"}],[20793590,{"by":"dadoge","descendants":215,"id":20793590,"kids":[20795148,20794466,20794749,20796075,20794392,20794551,20797348,20793834,20795876,20794524,20794989,20794658,20794441,20797783,20795530,20794645,20795027,20793837,20794457,20794798,20797088,20795083,20795304,20794461,20794480,20794812,20794318,20795051,20794345,20806969,20795136,20794188,20795844,20797929,20794804,20794412,20794530,20795706,20795707,20794332,20798080,20796993,20794078,20799254,20798047,20794352,20798118,20794965,20799256,20799880,20794214,20802946,20797470,20794264,20799746,20794394,20795046,20795227,20799869,20807001,20794361,20799274,20794404,20794726,20795071,20794614,20797568,20794895,20795055,20796839,20794439,20795710,20796697,20795402,20794484,20797641,20794050,20794966,20809900,20794282,20797461,20797617,20805481,20794813,20800335,20794247,20794442,20796128,20797364,20794342,20794320,20794476,20797963,20794385,20800551,20794757,20877810,20796678,20797054,20797794,20794647,20799783,20797757,20798220,20798224,20802249,20794208],"score":188,"text":"Feeling a little too comfortable where I'm at now. In the last couple years I had some side projects in distributed systems.

Those were fun, learned a new language, came to the conclusion that Go is overhyped and immature and helped me appreciate that Java ain't that bad after all. Feel like the project did help me be a better developer, understand load balancing, databases, storage systems etc better.

What new tech have y'all learned in the past 6 months - 1yr that you found to have made you a better developer?","time":1566748295,"title":"Ask HN: What are you learning in 2019?","type":"story"}],[15588361,{"by":"0bsidian","descendants":550,"id":15588361,"kids":[15589341,15591664,15588878,15588572,15589102,15589744,15588571,15590297,15588643,15590193,15589717,15588812,15590901,15588651,15589388,15588882,15589483,15590179,15588506,15590278,15588852,15588713,15590017,15588616,15589308,15589335,15590195,15589623,15589482,15588484,15589927,15589655,15589248,15591113,15588490,15588541,15591201,15589317,15589756,15592112,15588619,15588592,15589224,15589472,15591557,15589886,15593038,15590937,15589657,15588976,15588778,15589374,15590478,15589961,15589354,15588560,15590069,15588965,15589177,15590029,15592292,15588984,15588714,15591824,15591672,15589739,15590738,15589151,15589061,15589833,15589211,15590293,15591471,15594799,15589132,15588561,15588973,15590209,15588836,15589048,15590219,15589776,15591767,15589339,15589036,15588897,15594220,15591476,15589359,15589012,15589694,15589172,15589044,15589261,15588478,15589610,15588431,15588499,15588884,15589901,15589060,15590152,15589179,15588880,15590789,15589630,15598305,15589447,15592046,15590884,15589291,15608338,15590340,15589116,15588926,15591012,15592898,15589653,15589008,15588915,15590670,15591282,15590747,15591140,15591498,15589159,15589028,15589484,15589975,15589167,15590133,15589541,15588600,15588694,15588555,15588663,15591679,15591008,15589783,15589198,15590095,15589525,15589272,15590597,15588666,15590394,15590056,15589721,15589049,15589148,15592327,15590289,15590908,15588983,15588823,15589533,15588821,15588760,15601956,15588815,15589962,15608619,15593206,15590364,15590306,15589243,15590091,15590695,15591945,15588722,15590292,15589043,15589818,15589097,15589543,15591502,15620536,15589138,15589127,15590316,15590396,15588906,15589474,15591056,15662852,15599751,15589239,15590155,15590769,15590873,15589155,15589530,15589730,15589120,15595863,15589799,15594128,15588968,15588718,15600796,15605732,15588550,15589566,15590809,15589466,15617493,15591489,15589390,15589647,15589338,15634497,15595176,15589811,15589545,15589762,15588966,15591175,15591686,15591339,15591187,15589295,15588896,15591749,15590337,15591568,15596265,15589498,15592248,15591130,15589360,15591014,15591828,15592550,15590860,15591640,15590077,15590748,15589806,15589727,15588654,15590734,15589352,15594645,15589950,15590698,15594268,15589110,15589747,15591880,15588940,15588513,15589940,15590271,15589228,15601783,15596991,15591144,15593646,15589967,15591424,15604753,15589006,15593228,15589074,15588566,15608524,15589626,15589634,15595491,15591160,15589136,15589251,15590827,15589093,15602901,15591871,15588929,15591133,15589010,15588647,15589644,15589169,15588953,15588514,15589888,15604749,15590181,15588741,15591436,15590071,15589641,15589193,15589716,15588669,15592098,15591803,15588716,15589164,15589930,15588918,15593302,15593128,15591407,15608059,15590270,15588997,15591999,15591077,15590816,15590691,15588904,15589180,15589658,15592351,15590492,15588839,15590023,15590428,15588883,15591223,15589982,15590047,15589391,15588588,15621596,15592032,15591393,15590968,15588530,15592420,15591370,15594315,15590988,15588446,15588639,15588805,15588771,15588982],"score":337,"text":"$16","time":1509393451,"title":"Ask 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visual","type":"story","url":"https://redditgrid.com"}],[14431470,{"by":"nestorp","descendants":89,"id":14431470,"kids":[14436422,14436275,14435703,14435602,14436412,14437306,14436811,14437894,14437385,14438018,14435866],"score":137,"time":1495912381,"title":"Lessons I Learned from the Dotcom Bubble for the Coming Cryptocurrency Bubble","type":"story","url":"http://continuations.com/post/161091248805/some-lessons-i-learned-from-the-dotcom-bubble-for"}],[14385359,{"by":"georgecmu","descendants":168,"id":14385359,"kids":[14385547,14385586,14385998,14385604,14385564,14385574,14393722,14385535,14386155,14386662,14385999,14387355,14387339,14391778,14385521,14386709,14385591,14387089,14385870],"score":254,"time":1495332425,"title":"Killing C.I.A. 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We are 3 co founders and we have 33/33/33.

I want to quit it in 2 months and we are currently in the process to raise 500K for 25% before the end of the year.

Is it reasonable for me to keep 10% of it. - They think it's way too much.

Sell to them 10% right now - How much??

Sell 13% of it after the 500k raised - How much??

Thanks!","time":1495020230,"title":"Ask HN: How to leave a startup when you own a third of it?","type":"story"}],[13961176,{"by":"_6cj7","descendants":193,"id":13961176,"kids":[13961924,13962063,13961735,13961739,13961919,13962460,13962288,13962179,13961933,13962867,13962193,13962345,13963112,13961476,13962543,13962049,13961879,13961775,13961976,13963869,13961873,13961949,13961995,13962946,13961743,13962421,13961245,13961808,13963370,13963664,13963064,13962005,13963825,13975683,13963783,13962994,13961872,13961901,13963633,13963750,13963955,13969578,13961770,13961231,13962450,13963596,13989082,13965288,13962043,13962289,13962674,13962767,13963837,13963704,13961335],"score":149,"time":1490541387,"title":"Ask HN: Is there room for another search engine?","type":"story"}]]

user:	kevando
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about:	Nothing great can be accomplished without enthusiasm